Why are we so careless with our love. We give it away freely, to another, when we neglect our husbands and wives. We let other other people sleep in our beds while our spouses are away. We get tangled up in a web we can not break free from until everything we have is teetering on a fence on which both sides means death. Death of a marriage, demise of family, you are killing your spirit and possibly career, many things are on the brink of destruction. WHY are we so CARELESS with our love. I watch many people inching closer and closer to the person they should be running from. I see potential harm looming in the horizon am I destined to fear the future because of the past. Some say it's not gonna be, I would never... bullshit. I stopped looking so I won’t see what’s coming and maybe they won’t crash into each other maybe they will be what each other needs in an innocent way. Friends? Maybe. Lovers? Indefinitely? Yes, not infidelity, indefinitely...meaning it usually does not last. Why do we do it, murder each other, give our love away. The person who needs it, deserves it, works hard to keep it, ends up choked up, screaming, in pain, devastated. Some lose rank, others lose sleep, their sanity and meanwhile all is takes is a moment...there is always that moment, that second...”do I answer the call?”, “do I go to their house?”, “do I take my tongue out of their mouth?”, “ take my panties off?”, how about what happens before all of that...”do I start a relationship with this...person?”. Maybe we need to learn to stop it before it starts...why the hell we keep being so careless with our love??? It starts with a look, inappropriate banter, touching & kissing and the next thing you know it your naked. But not really, there is always a MOMENT and second, minute, days...but it is there, it’s always a before and then an after...We have to stop being so careless with our love, stop giving it away. We have to stop being so quick to open our hearts, minds or even just our pants to the wrong one...the destroyer.
